Friday, October 21, 2005

I think we're stupid

We tend to forget painful situations in our lives, or rather – the pain and hurt itself. Time heals. I think you never really forget the situation and the fact that somebody or something has hurt you, but you forget the overwhelming sensation of hurt and you forget the crying-your-heart-out and so on. They say (who are they, btw?) that it’s the defense mechanism of human organism. It’s the reason why women still have children after giving birth to one baby and why women or men forgive their partners cheating and why new relationships are still formed after bad breakups and why most of the people don’t kill themselves after the death of somebody dear.

We cry, we’re broken for a while, we hate the ones who’ve heart us, we hate the world and we think things will never get better. And yet we cope, at some point we dry our tears, we forgive the world, we start to believe our friends telling us that it will be better and finally we are able to forgive the people who’ve hurt us. It’s because we rather remember the good memories and the decent features in people.

Lately somebody from my not so distant past told me that he realizes that he’s been a real jerk to me and that he wants to make it up to me… And, I have no idea what to think of it…

"If they can’t get close enough to hurt you, they can’t get close enough to love you." - Unknown

3 comments:

lee said...

if you want to see the rainbow, you gotta stand wait though the rain .. and i also think we're stupid ;)

Kate the Peon said...

Good post.

Hernes said...

Thanks!